I hope you all had a great Halloween and are ready to settle into the holiday season! We busted out the Christmas music last night, and I´m officially excited :D But it´s crazy to believe how fast time is flying...
This week had its ups and downs, like always. We did a lot of procura but didn´t find as many new investigators as we would have liked. Its weird that at times it seems to easy to find new people, and at other times it´s such a struggle. It really doesn´t depend on us, but we just have to continue to seek direction and work, and the results will come. But, we did still see miracles :)
Yesterday Jorge was finally baptized! We´ve been working with him all this month. He´s from CaboVerde and came here for a leg operation and is recovering\ receiving treatment. These last couple weeks his family has invited him to spend the weekend with them, which is good, but meant that he couldn´t go to church. He finally made the decision that church is more important, talked to his family that he wanted to stay here for the weekends, which was the only thing he was lacking to be baptized! It´s been interesting teaching him- he doesn´t talk Portugues really, just criole, that isn´t all that understandable. But we´ve all learned a lot of patience in the last month ;) It´s been neat to see the changes in him over the last couple weeks, and so good to see him finally ready to be baptized. Our chapel is ´´in obras´´ and the baptismal font is locked, so we had to go to another chapel, which was a pain and a hassle. But, everything is worth it in the end!
We also had a surprising miracle yesterday. There´s a young woman who is dating a boy in our ward that has been coming consistently for a few months. I had tried in the past to set up appointments to teach her, but they fell through and I didn´t think that she really had that much interest, but just came because of her boyfriend. BUT, yesterday she came up to me at church and asked if we could teach her the last two lessons that shes lacking (she was taught like 4 months ago the first lessons). Of course I said yes, and we set up an appointment for yesterday afternoon. We taught her, which was the first time I had had a prolonged conversation with her, and it was really good. She know so much and she has a strong testimony that the church is true. We talked about the gospel of Jesus Christ- the five basic steps. She said that she had already thought about baptism, and had wanted to be baptized before her birthday in the summer, but with holidays and other things, it didn´t work out. We committed her to be baptized, and she said ´´yes, as soon as possible...I've already waited months´´!!!!! So we´ll be having her baptism this Saturday. It was totally a surprise, but as we talked with her, she is so ready, and has such a strong desire. She talked about about how so many things have already changed as she´s gotten to know the church, and I know that she´ll be even more blessed by the decision to be baptized. Bençãos!!!!!!!!
So despite the work being hard or discouraging at times, Heavenly Father really gives us so many tender mercies and we see so many miracles. I love it!
Bem. Lots of random things happened this week, and I just wanted to give you a taste of what is missionary work in Portugal....
There is the ´´Portugues finger´´. When you´re doing something wrong, or somebody doesn´t want to talk with you, they give you the ´´Portugues finger´´, where they wave their pointer finger definitively in the air. The finger is the final rejection! ...there´s also ´´the hand´´ where you greet someone thats passing and they raise their hand, almost as if to greet you with a wave, but really it´s saying ´´don´t talk to me´´. When this happens we say to each other ´´you got the hand!!´´. It´s interesting talking with strangers all day.
All of the predios, or buildings, have a doorbell pad (I don´t know what you call it in English), ou seja, campainhas. You ring for each apartment, and they always say ´´Quem é?!´´ to ask who it is. If the pad doesn´t have an intercom system, they like to open their windows and yell to talk. This may work when they´re on the bottom floor, but when they´re on the 3rd or higher floor, it gets complicated! There´s no way that there going to hear or understand us, and we´re just there on the street yelling that we´re disciples of Jesus Christ! Not exactly the way I pictured contacting :P They also ask ´´quem é´´ when you knock on their doors. People here are afraid of opening their doors, and refuse to open it until they know who it is (and even then they don´t...) But when they can´t understand what you´re saying because there´s a door in the way, it can be frustrating!! It´s happened several times where someone came to the door and couldn´t hear or understand us because of other noise. They went back inside to turn off the tv or tell someone to be quiet instead of just opening the door and solving the problem!!! it´s interesting ;)
I always knew about the supposed discord between missionaries and dogs, but really never appreciated how annoying dogs can be :P There are so many dogs here...the streets are covered in dog poo! But they´re always inside the houses. It´s happened several times that someone said they could not open the door or talk to us at the door because of the dogs. The other week a dog bit me for the first time! Luckily it didn´t draw blood, but was a little scary....suffice it to say that the mission has sealed a solid dislike of dogs in me...
Other quirk of Portugues culture- when we try to talk to people who are in their house, they say that they came answer and that there busy, or whatever other excuse. Then when we go on to talk to more people in the same area, they decide to help us, saying at every house we go to ´´não há ninguém´´, or no ones home. This has happened many times that someone says that at the same time that someone answers the door at that house....interesting how they suddenly want to ´´help´´ us. The other week we contacted a lady that was in her window (they all like to stay at the window and watch the street) and she didn´t want anything. Then when we were contacting people on the other side of the street, she started yelling at them about who we are when they came to the window to talk to us (see two paragraphs above for an explanation of this behavior!) So they gave us the ´´Portugues finger´´ and went back inside. aahh, life is interesting in Portugal!!
I really do love it, sorry if these descriptions seem a little negative. It´s really not, just oddly absurd and at times I can´t believe that whats happening really is happening. But, you never know whats going to happen when you´re a missionary! We passed this potentials house last week and there was another couple there from Romania that didn´t really speak Portugues. We sang and prayed with them, and then tried to watch a dvd. She put in the film and then started asking us if we would give them money, because they´re behind on rent. Obviously we said that we couldn´t give them money. She wrenched the dvd from the machine, and they practically kicked us out of the house, all the while speaking things that I had no idea what she was saying....we just laughed about it afterward...so absurd.
But, it is awesome to get to know Heavenly Father´s children, of all varieties. I know that He loves each and every one of us individually, and that He has a plan. I hope that you all have a great week and remember that I love you!